'Gram of the Week (10/31/11 - 11/6/11)

COLLEGE OF STATEN ISLAND; WHERE YOU CAN FURTHER YOUR EDUCATION AND ………GET MARRIED?

Spec (that’s his name -- Spec) saw me do an Anniversary singing telegram recently at the Sovereign Motor Cars Mercedes dealership off the Belt Parkway in Brooklyn and it got him thinking. He’d been dating his girlfriend, Lena, since High School, and he was trying to figure out how and where he wanted to propose to her.

There’s just one big problem; his culture. He’s Albanian. And so is Lena. And there are rules. As I was to discover, it is a very, VERY conservative, strict, protective, family-oriented culture. They had to keep their dating private because if Lena’s brother or her family found out, it would be Bad-News-Bears for Spec. Like I said, he’s Albanian, too. It’s not like she was dating “outside” of the culture. I’m guessing the guys can be wild and crazy, but don’t even think about messing with their sisters!

Spec has a good job with Sovereign and even gets to drive a nice-looking 2011 white CLS as a perk. Lena’s in college now; specifically at the College of Staten Island for education. I assume by now, he’s made nice with the family. He already went to Lena’s Dad to ask for her hand in marriage. The only thing left was the proposal.

So Spec found out Lena’s classes and went to her professors. Professor Gold gave the OK and even went as far as telling the class at the previous lecture, that he was going to bring in Dr. “Fox”,  from the psychology department to talk about a new and exciting teaching technique the psychology department wanted to implement.

I show up to campus at the appropriate time. Spec is smoking like a fiend, nervous as hell, and drawing a lot of attention from campus security.  I asked “What are you nervous about?  I’M the one who has to sing! All you have to do is get down on your knee on cue and pop the question.” He made the mistake of waving his video camera around a little too liberally. Security came over and told him to put it away or they’d kick him off campus……and stop smoking; it’s not allowed. (I’m thinking he’s going to blow it before we get anywhere near the class.)

I agree to secrete the camera inside my lab coat (I’m a professor from the psych department, remember?), thereby making me an accessory to the “crime”.  Our window of opportunity was closing, so I said, “le të shkojë ” (“let’s go” in Albanian). I knock on the door, was greeted very warmly by Professor Gold and proceeded to ad lib my way through some BS about how the use of song is very effective as a teaching method and I was going to prove it to them by singing to them and then testing them. Lena’s girlfriend was also taking the class and was able to make hand motions behind Lena to indicate who she was (she looked nothing like her picture!)

Halfway through the song, I look at Lena and start to sing some very personal material (Philly Eagles fan, collects designer pocketbooks, sleeps with her socks on, wouldn’t kiss Spec on their first date, etc.) and she’s thinking it’s still part of the teaching technique and that she’s the guinea pig with all the personal info that I’m going to test the class on.

It wasn’t until:

“When you first dated Spec, it’s known

You changed his name on your cell phone

You renamed him ‘Lu’, no doubt

So your brother would not find out

C.S.I. is where Spec chose

To be the place to propose

So now he’s down on bended knee

And he’s asking……….”

At which point Spec walks in the room, pulls out a ring, gets down on one knee and asks,

“Lena, will you marry me?”

The whole class erupted. No one knew what was going on. They’re cheering, Lena’s crying, Spec’s crying, Lena’s sister is recording, and Professor Gold wanted me to talk more about the “singing teaching technique” !

Lena said “yes,” by the way. I hope they’re very happy and have lots and lots of little Albanian children. At the very least, just so Spec can continue the tradition and put his daughters’ boyfriends through hell when it comes time for them to start dating!

Kerry 

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'Gram of the week (10/24/11 - 10/30/11)

HER OWN PRIVATE CONCERT SOME 54 YEARS LATER!

Mary turned 70 this week and her children sent her a singing telegram out to Mattituck, where they were celebrating at the Transfiguration of Christ Church.

Fond of playing BINGO and Scrabble online, “Crabmary” is always early with everything; including birthday wishes. She gives gifts earlier than she should and she’ll even wish you a Happy Birthday on the day before your actual day.

She’s quirky in that she always has to smell her food before she eats it (maybe not THAT quirky. After pouring bad milk into my coffee  many years ago, I’ve never recovered. To this day, I’ll take a quick whiff of the milk before adding it to my coffee; even if I personally open a brand new container!). She’s also lots of fun at parties. One Halloween, Mary dressed up as a Bag Lady. She was so convincing, that no one knew it was she and suspected an actual Bag Lady had crashed the party!

Her only big regret: back in High School, she and her girlfriend cut school to go see Elvis Presley in concert. Never got the chance though, because they got caught. So some 54 years later, her family thought it was time to right a wrong and send an Elvis to their Mom.

Thank you. Thankyouverymuch!

Kerry

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'Gram of the Week (10/17/11 - 10/23/11)

WHAT DO YOU GET THE GIRL WHO HAS NOTHING ( I mean who WEARS nothing)?

A singing pink gorilla, of course! Taylor Vixen was the 2010 Penthouse Pet of the Year (for the sake of propriety, I'll forgo the usual links to other sites!) Taylor was in town to do some promotional work and Café Royale, the exotic nightclub in Farmingdale, was hosting her and discovered it was her Birthday. One of my good customers, John, who manages the club and has been the subject of a number of my blogs, called me up with a last-minute SOS. Knowing I'd never refuse a last-minute request to stop at the club (for work, for WORK!), I wrote up a song highlighting her.....uh.....attributes. John instructed me to go all out and not to worry; "she makes her living in the porn industry!" After all, she recently had been on Howard Stern's Sirius XM radio show, bragging about her natural D-cups.

But all of the jokes seemed to go over Ms. Vixen's head.

One of my usual throw-away lines is to say, "I don't strip or belly dance".......[crickets]

"I've come to croon, with my own balloons"...[crickets]

"The details of your age are kinda murky

I have to say you're looking pretty...perky!"...[crickets]

"PURE Night Club's host"

You are the most

There's nothing finer

Than your.........shapely body!"........[crickets]

The patrons liked it. John liked it.  Well, I guess that was the most important thing; keep the customer happy!

Kerry

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'Gram of the Week (10/10/11 - 10/16/11)

“THIS LAND IS YOUR LAND, THIS LAND IS MY LAND…”

October 2011. The Occupy Wall Street movement is in full swing.  Ted works for Deutsche Bank down on Wall Street and has to walk past the protesters in Zuccotti Park. Every. Single. Day. He has nothing but disdain for them. At 35, he’s not much older than they are. And like Andrew Breitbart, he has been known to “engage” with them on his way to work.

This Wharton grad is very fond of trading distressed convertible bonds, specifically GM, Ford, and Yellow Roadways. He’s also obsessed with his “Euro Hedge”. He met his wife in a bar. But he had to go really low to get her. He told her he was a Democrat, a Red Sox fan, and that he worked at Goldman Sachs. Her response was priceless: “You mean the jock itch company?” (that would be Gold BOND!)

His buddies over at Deutsche Bank wanted to have a little fun with Ted. They sent me in as a Hippie Occupy Wall Street protester who was able to “gain access” to the building to show him no hard feelings and that the “guys over at Zuccotti Park” wanted to treat him to a Dunkin Donuts Pumpkin Latte and a dozen donuts.

One would figure he could take a joke. After all, at Wharton, he used to write for the Follies; no small accomplishment. I don’t think Ted was amused!

Kerry

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'Gram of the Week (10/3/11 - 10/9/11)

PERHAPS THE FAIRFIELD UNIVERSITY FIGHT SONG WOULD HAVE BEEN  A BETTER CHOICE!

Fairfield University’s  mascot is  Lucas, the red stag. I don’t think a Reggae Gorilla comes close to looking like Lucas, unless you squint your eyes really, really tight; but who am I to judge? After all, it IS college and there might be lots of  underage imbibing……..even if it IS Fairfield!  

Julia is a sophomore at Fairfield University. She turned 20 this week and the only way her “friends” wanted to celebrate was with a singing telegram in the cafeteria at the Barone Student Center…..at lunch-time.

Imagine the scene; a packed cafeteria, a cornered bio/chem major, and a Reggae Gorilla revealing most of her secrets for the student body to hear. This Chris Brown fan is addicted to Juicy Juice, is a germaphobe, hates those who text loudly (?), likes to talk in a high-pitched baby voice, and can’t play soccer for the Stags because she rolled her ankle while wearing high heels! And those are only the things I can repeat in mixed company.

Oh yeah, she might be a little bit gullible, too. One of her friends prank-called her, saying she was the Dean of the school, and scared the bejesus out of her; hook, line, and sinker.

“Deuces”, Jules!

Kerry

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'Gram of the Week (9/26/11 - 10/2/11)

"FOR WHAT DO WE LIVE, BUT TO MAKE SPORT FOR OUR NEIGHBORS, AND LAUGH AT THEM IN OUR TURN?"

Husband and wife, Scott and Janice, celebrated both of their 50th birthdays this week in Babylon. Neighbors Janet and George couldn't be there and sent a comic Elvis to sing to them at their "Prom-themed" 50th Birthday celebration.

Their neighborhood in Copiague is very, VERY close-knit. They not only look out for each other, but they tend to get in each other's way, as well......often!

Whoever said that "good fences make good neighbors" and "love your neighbor, but don't pull down your hedge," obviously didn't know the gang on Harbor Court.

Not only is there always a party going on, but they also take vacations together. In Las Vegas, Scott fell asleep by the pool, only to wake up surrounded by empty bottles of beer his neighbors surreptitiously placed around him. 

Practical jokes seem to be a required skill to belong to this group. During Christmas one year, Scott and Janice brought their two TV sets for their daughters over to Janet and George's place for safe-keeping. They ended up putting their own tags on the gifts, so when Scott and Janice's daughters unwrapped the TVs from Santa, it didn't say it was from Santa Claus; no, it had Janet and George's names on it.

Scott enjoys water sports and has a lot of water-related "toys" on his property. One neighbor went so far as to put a huge sign on Scott's property that said, "Water Sports Rentals by Scott"! Scott got even by posting a sign on the neighbor's property that said "For Rent". They got quite a number of unexpected visitors that weekend!

Kerry

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'Gram of the Week (9/19/11 - 9/25/11)

TIME HEALS EVERYTHING !

Deb Silver's husband, Steven loves her .......a lot! They live in England and split their time commuting back and forth between Manchester and New York City. Tall and beautiful, a la Diana Rigg, Deb is a lyricist/composer and a jazz singer who headlines at the Zinc Bar in NYC. Steven is Steven Stone of Steven Stone Jewellers in the United Kingdom. (http://www.stevenstone.co.uk/)

This year's birthday found them separated with Steven working in England and Deb performing in NYC, while celebrating with her girlfriends at their New York pied-á-terre. Deb and Steven met 30 years ago in their 20's, split up, then met again two years ago, before finally getting married last year.

Here's a music video clip of Deb's homage to Steven after finding each other again. She wrote her own lyrics to the Beatles' "Got To Get You Into My Life" and spiced it up with choreography mixed with pictures of them throughout the years. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9T2qj6aOn2w

Steven decided to return the favor by having me show up in tuxedo to her apartment in NYC and sing one of the ballads from her act. I upped the ante by personalizing the song to that tune ("Time Heals Everything" from Mack and Mabel). This time, Deb ends up being on the receiving end of a torch song.

(sung to the tune of "Time Heals Everything")

Steven's 'cross the "pond"
No disputing.
Back and forth, you're fond
Of commuting.
30 years ago, met, it's said.
Split, then met again
Now, you're wed!

He's enthralled with you
Like no other.
To his children
The best stepmother

Today it's you he's thinking of
It won't be long now till October
To Hale you'll be going over.

Happy Birthday, Deb
Steven sends this with
All his love.

Kerry
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